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DANIELLE WILDER
PERSONAL FREEDOM COACH & STYLIST
DISCOVER how to use Style
to FEEL like your genuine self, & LOVE Your Life
Do you remember that fantasy you had of you at your most ALIVE?
Is your desire hidden underneath layers of 'should/shouldn't' and fears about what would happen if you actually WENT for it?
Do you find yourself resisting the ways you wish you could show up, because of the way your spouse, kids, friends, family etc. would criticize you or think you've changed?
What if I told you the fantasy you have of your most alive self was actually possible?
What if I told you I understand better than anyone, the enormity of how changing the way you dress, can change your life?
What if I told you that your relationships might change?
What if I told you I know how to navigate the waters of the masculine and feminine relationship dynamics and how they can turn, in the midst of embracing your truth in such a visible way?
I have walked this path.
I have bloodied myself on it, actually.
I got to know it so intimately and powerfully that it became my mission to guide others on it.
Welcome, to embodied style and a shift that can rock your world, your relationship with your body, your relationship with your loved ones, and can open doors to your most ecstatic life.
EMBODY THE ENERGY OF YOUR TRUE SELF
THE OFFERING
WHAT I KNOW FOR SURE...
So many of us walk around in a half-embodied way, wearing what we're 'supposed' to, saying what we're 'supposed' to, doing what we're 'supposed' to... living by a repressed majority decision to numb out, and put on a fake smile. And we do it because we don't know how NOT to.
We are taught NOT to look inward & live with self-knowing, self-acceptance & truly be SEEN. Why?
Because Self Discovery & Self Acceptance is POWER.
That power can topple empires. The diet industry is estimated to be over a $70 BILLION DOLLAR one. Corporate Fashion companies and the hyped up beauty industry (which is estimated at over $100 BILLION DOLLARS) are all enmeshed in the same campaign. To make women dependent and insecure. To keep pushing the drive to 'fit in'.
Fearless Self Discovery, with support, can only lead to radical self acceptance. And that self acceptance can devastate the corporate greed of these empires. And if that happens, small business' like artists with unique ideas in fashion could really start to thrive. True human connection and love could begin to be more important. Imagine!
Imagine what could be possible for me, for you, for all of us, if we chose to do our deeper inner work... if we chose to consciously reject 'fitting in' and if we actually began supporting each other in our individual choices of style.
Our 'retail therapy' would move from 'What can I get to just make me feel better... but that my husband and friends will all approve of?' to 'I choose to spend joyfully and consciously, on these things that I will love, use, and that feel genuinely ME!'.
We would move from 'I have to get 3 different people's opinions on this dress before I decide to get it', to 'This dress is exactly how I want to feel and it showcases my unique energy in a way that will feel good to embody and getting someone else's opinion on my personal style is a quick way to give away my voice'.
I'm not saying you need to blow up your entire social circle in one fell swoop.
I'm not saying I think swinging radically from one extreme to the next is going to be the ideal way to embrace authenticity.
I'm not saying there isn't a benefit to knowing what kinds of styles fit different occasions and places.
What I'm saying is that it is possible to slowly begin to strip away the facade. It is possible to consciously reveal your genuine self in ways that feel FUN, impactful, joyful, powerful AND SAFE.
This full-day session is about sparking transformation, supporting the blossoming, the shedding of old layers, the letting go of damaging ideas, the embracing of your core self, and the power of showing up as YOU.​
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THE DAY
STYLE & SOUL
a Day with Danielle
ABOUT THE DAY
THE DISCOVERY SESSION...
an 4 hr (give or take) day of discovery, depth, fun & liberation
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Getting to know you & your story
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Finding out what you want to feel more of in your self expression
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A style assessment to learn your core style descriptors. This is the ENERGY talk and it goes much deeper than words like 'professional' or 'glamorous' or 'fun')
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Body type styling tips (used for EXPANSION of expression, not restriction)
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Deprogramming the Nonsense (there's a lot, and disproving it is my gift)
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Process and learn how to move through judgment, fears and doubts
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Learn what you need in your wardrobe, and how to integrate it into your life to feel your most authentic
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Plan for when and how to play with some of your desired style discoveries
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THIS DAY IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
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You're committed to always putting others style opinions above your own
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You don't desire to be more authentic and self expressed
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You aren't open to support, suggestions and doing inner work
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You want a coach to help you fit in MORE
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You're unwilling to look at how fatphobia influences the cultural definition of 'flattering' and keeps you stuck in a mental & emotional body jail
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You aren't willing to see beauty in new ways
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You expect a personal shopper who runs around to all the trendiest boutiques & has every current designers lookbook memorized. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE shopping, & I LOVE fashion design, but it's not the foundation of this transformational work.
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You just want a closet audit to go through what you have
THIS DAY IS FOR YOU IF...
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You're READY to embrace your genuine self in ways that are visible
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You appreciate support that holds you accountable, and strongly confronts old ideas that no longer serve you
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You can grasp that being different, when it's genuine, actually makes you MORE lovable
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You're ready to begin attracting people & things that appreciate the real YOU
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You know you need support to overcome fears and doubts
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You aren't sure if you even HAVE a style
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You look at your closet and don't know where to begin to find yourself
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You are prepared to do some uncomfortable inner work and let go of old ideas
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You're willing to gently expand your definition of flattering from 'tiny' to 'beautiful'
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You can begin to really feel that trendy designer or not, style is so much more than a name, a price, a size, a social media presence, or a moment in time.
BOOK HERE
MY STORY
MY STORY
Coming 2024
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